You're absolutely right. Whether or not body count matters solely depend on a person's values.

If you think high body counts mean a better sex experience, or a more mature dating mindset, or higher self-confidence, fine, you can suit yourself. But if you also think high body counts mean you're immoral as a person and incapable as a partner, okay, we respect that.

At the end of the day, it all boils down to what we believe and whether the person we date closely believes in the same thing we do.