DATING & PSYCHOLOGY
Signs A Girl Likes You | 12 Questions She Might Ask
So you’ve been talking to this girl that you’ve liked for so long, but until now, you have no idea if she likes you back.
Women can be hard to figure out. You wouldn’t know how to approach the situation because you are afraid of rejection, but at the same time, you don’t want inaction because you don’t want her to think you’re not interested.
Should you tell a girl you like her and not waste time wondering if the feeling is mutual?
If there’s only a way for you to know how she feels about you, you wouldn’t be in this predicament. But what if we told you there is? Luckily for you, psychology can help figure out if a woman is into you without having to awkwardly ask her upfront.
There are more than a hundred signs a girl likes you, but in this blog, we’ll focus on how she communicates with you — specifically when asking questions. You may not know it, but the way she asks questions can easily give away her intentions.
Whether she’s Latina, Russian, or Asian, a girl will often ask a lot of questions if she’s interested in you. These questions can be about your hobbies, interests, relationship status, or even your future plans. The reason she’s asking these questions is to get to know you better and gauge if you are a good match for her.
Here, we’ve come up with a list of possible questions a girl asks when she likes you, so you won’t have to worry about whether or not you have a shot at her or you’re just wasting your time pursuing someone who turns out is not into you.
12 Possible Questions A Girl Asks When She Likes You
1. How’s your day?
Does a girl like you if she asks how your day was? You might think this question is trivial and is just one of those Monday morning pep talks, but there’s more to this question than you think. This question is a perfect conversation starter, which means the person asking the question is hoping to hear from you. The question gives her a reason to start a conversation with you, regardless of whether you had a good or bad day.
2. What are you up to this weekend? (Or any other day or event)
Asking what you are up to is often a subtle way of showing interest. She’s trying to see if what you’re doing will pique her interest, and if it does, she might ask if she can come with you — or give you hints if she’s too shy to ask. This is one of the signs she wants you to ask her out, disguised as a sense of curiosity to keep her from looking desperate.
3. Do you have a girlfriend / Are you married?
To put it bluntly, she’s interested in you and doesn’t want to be a third party. She might ask this question early on to allow her to manage her feelings according to your response. If you are taken, she’ll probably distance herself. Otherwise, she’ll pursue her interest in you. Always remember to be truthful to avoid hurting other people.
4. What do you like to do for fun?
Women like men whom they have common interests with. If a woman asks about your hobbies or what you do for fun, she’s likely scoping you out, trying to see if you have common interests she can use to get closer to you. Don’t be shy to tell her about them because shared interests allow for more meaningful conversations.
5. What do you do for a living?
This question might seem inappropriate to some, depending on the culture you grew up with. But the fact is, asking about your job is necessary if a woman is interested in dating you long-term. She wants to see what the future with you will look like — will you be too busy because of your job? Will you be able to take care of her when the time comes?
6. Are you on social media?
A woman who likes you will likely stalk your social media to see what you are truly like as a person. There is so much she can learn from you by the way you treat others and interact with them on social media. Your online persona reflects a major part of who you are. So if you’ve got nothing to hide, share away!
7. What music do you listen to?
Music is an effective stress reliever for many. Knowing someone you like has the same taste in music as you ensure you are both on the same wavelength. Wouldn’t it be cool to have someone listening along to your favorite music? Music taste reveals a lot about your values and interests and can be a great way to find common ground.
8. What’s your type of girl?
While there are more than 50 signs a girl likes you, the more obvious one is if she asks what your type of girl is. Asking this question gives her an idea if she has a chance with you. And if she doesn’t fall into the category of your “ideal” woman, she’ll know what to do or change about herself to fit your preferences.
9. What makes you angry?
Fights and misunderstandings are common in dating and relationships. As such, a girl who is interested in you will want to avoid making you angry. How would she know what to avoid? Of course, by asking you about the things that tick you off.
Asking this question also gives her an idea of how easily you get angry. She might like you, but if you have anger problems, a possible abusive relationship is something she’ll want to avoid.
10. What are your thoughts on relationships?
The best way for a woman to know if you are boyfriend material is to ask you about relationships. Do you have the same thoughts when it comes to relationships and dealing with problems? Are you a hopeless romantic? Do you prefer platonic relationships?
11. How do you feel about me?
Women can be frank and direct. If she wants to know if you’re interested in her just as she is in you, she might ask how you feel about her. This way, she can stop guessing if the feeling is mutual or not. Consider yourself lucky if she asks you this question, especially if you don’t want or know how to ask a girl if she likes you.
12. When can I see you again?
Someone who is into you will want to see you regularly, so she’ll more than likely ask you when she can see you again. There are different variations of this question as some women might consider this to be a little too needy. She might ask, “Wanna hang out again?” or something along the lines of “Are you free to hang out this weekend?”
There’s no easy way to determine whether or not someone is interested in you. But instead of going que sera sera, you can always proactively find hints of her intentions through her mannerisms and the way she communicates with you, especially when she’s asking questions.
Women may be complicated, but knowing the signs a girl likes you allows you to navigate the dating world with confidence. You can even use what you’ve learned from this blog on real, beautiful women by joining our singles tours. Talk to as many women as you like and figure out which ones are interested in getting to know you better!
