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Clothing Tips to Make You Look More Handsome
There’s a lot more to life than just your looks. But truthfully, any man would want to look handsome. After all, it’s a fool-proof method for whether you want to feel confident about yourself or to attract your love interest.
Tons of research have shown that your looks affect the way people perceive you. For instance, if people see you look good, they usually perceive you as someone who’s good at his job or is doing well in life. Meanwhile, they tend to think of the opposite if they see you looking plain.
People also tend to assume your personality depending on how good you look. Take a look at some well-known films like Aladdin, James Bond, and The Lion King. People automatically viewed Jafar, Blofeld, and Scar as the villains of the story. This is because of their ugly and disfigured looks. Meanwhile, the heroes of the story were assumed to be nice due to their great outward appearance.
Oftentimes, people use the word handsome to describe someone attractive. But what is a better word than handsome? Is it better to use cute or hot?
For many people, there’s a difference when you describe someone as cute, handsome, or hot.
Cute vs. Handsome & Handsome vs. Hot
What’s the first thing you think of whenever you look at a puppy or a child? As most people do, you’d probably describe them as “cute.”
Although being cute equates to looking attractive, it mostly refers to coming off as adorable and endearing.
Think of yourself as the boy-next-door type of guy. Whether it’s due to your size, youthful-looking features, or quirky personality, cuteness makes people think that you’re someone to take care of.
On the contrary, being “hot” means that you have sex appeal. You’re someone who’s in shape and carries himself with confidence and charisma. With just one look, you probably have people swooning.
Meanwhile, being “handsome” means that you’re respectable. You look dignified and are assumed to be someone dependable.
Now, you may be asking yourself, “Am I handsome?”
Well, being a handsome man involves knowing how to dress like one. Here are some clothing tips on how you can dress up to look more handsome for any event.
How to Look Presentable on a Casual Day
As someone who cares about his looks, you must know how to look presentable even on your days off. This means knowing how to accomplish a casual look.
That said, here are some tips you can follow.
1. Consider the Occasion
Where are you going and what exactly do you plan to do?
Are you going to take a walk in the park? If so, understand what people expect of you there. Know the environment and pay close attention to the social context. Base your outfit on your answer.
2. Keep it Simple
Remember that casual wear is a combination of a relaxed and elegant fit. So the number one rule is to choose simple clothing pieces.
This means the classic black, white, or navy shirt paired with light or dark-wash denim jeans. You can also opt for a simple polo shirt or a long-sleeved shirt. Shorts are also an option, but only wear them in the right context.
3. Keep it Consistent
Keep your style consistent. Make sure that your look blends well. Avoid choosing a top and bottom that clash with each other. Keep this in mind when you accessorize as well.
How to Look Good in a Suit During a Formal Event
You may think that wearing a suit will immediately make you more handsome. But that’s not always the case. The thing is, you should know how to look good in a suit. This is especially true if you’re attending an event that calls for it, such as socials and weddings.
1. Find the Right Fit
A good suit is all about the fit.
If you don’t have a tailor-fitted suit and instead, are planning to buy one from the store, keep in mind that you need to find the right fit for your shoulders first. If you can’t find one, it’s best to have the suit adjusted. Also, focus on the fit of your sleeves and pants.
Overall, make sure that the suit you buy hugs all the right places of your body. That way, you’ll look more put together.
2. Wear the Right Undershirt
Underneath your suit is your undershirt — an invaluable layer of fabric that helps you keep sweat away from your body. Although this layer isn’t visible, it’s important that you wear the right one.
As mentioned, your undershirt shouldn’t be seen. So choose a lighter color undershirt when compared to your dress shirt. A pro-tip is that you can’t go wrong with white. Moreover, while you can wear a T-shirt instead, it’s a poor choice compared to an undershirt.
How to Look Good at the Beach
The beach always calls for a fun experience. Even more so if you’re going with your love interest. If you want to make yourself look more handsome and make her swoon, take note of some of the following tips on how to look good at the beach.
1. Prep Your Body
When going to the beach, men usually wear a short-sleeved fitted shirt, a sleeveless shirt, or they go topless. After all, a beach trip is a rare chance for you to show off your body. But what’s the point of wearing good quality clothing when your body isn’t ready for a day at the seas?
That being said, prep your body. Do cardio and maintain your muscles. This way, your love interest is sure to be enamored.
2. Bring Out the Fun Colors
Swap your black or white tee with a colorful Hawaiian shirt. Match the fun vibe at the beach instead of going for a dry, gloomy look. There’s no harm in wearing a fun-colored shirt or shorts once in a while. Plus, this saves you from the scorching heat.
How to Look Good in Headshots
As a man, surely, you would want to look good for a woman. As such, you should know that one of the important things that women look at when they go through your online dating profile or your social media page is your headshot.
Some men don’t know how to look good in headshots. But you can be the exception.
1. Wear Solid Colors
Looking your best may mean bringing out your fancy clothes. But when it comes to headshots, it’s best to avoid patterned clothing, such as stripes or gingham. Instead, only choose solid-colored clothing.
2. Say No to Wearing an Undershirt or White Top
The purpose of a headshot is so that the focus will be solely on your facial features. Thus, wearing a white top underneath a jacket shouldn’t be one of your choices. When getting your photo taken inside a studio, your white shirt will reflect the bright light. As a result, this changes the focus to your shirt rather than your face.
Moreover, an undershirt is great when paired with suits. But for your headshot, avoid wearing one as you risk creating unflattering lines on your body. In addition, undershirts are oftentimes visible because of the lighting.
How to Look Fresh Without Much Preparation
Being handsome takes a lot of hard work. But there are ways on how to look fresh without doing much preparation.
1. Accessorize
You’ll be surprised to find out how much a nice watch, ring, or necklace can do for you. So don’t be afraid to accessorize.
Accessories are the key to your look. They put your whole outfit together and add a touch of your personality. They’re also versatile, so you can pair them with any ensemble. However, avoid over-accessorizing.
2. Get Rid of the Baggy Jeans
Baggy jeans are comfortable to wear. But they’re not adding anything to your image. Rather than looking fresh, you’ll end up looking unkempt.
So swap your baggy jeans for slim-fitted jeans.
How to Change Your Wardrobe
Dressing well to look more handsome doesn’t mean that you need to have a massive wardrobe. It also doesn’t mean that you need to spend more or make drastic changes to your current one.
Here’s how to change your wardrobe and become the best-dressed man while spending less.
1. Declutter
Hoarding doesn’t do you any good. It’s time to throw some things out. This includes overstretched and washed-out clothes, those that have holes, and those that have non-washable stains.
2. Have the Core Items
After decluttering, check if you have the essential clothing pieces. Know that having core items in your wardrobe allows you to mix and match to your heart’s content. Think of them as your style building blocks.
Make sure that you have fitted and high-quality jackets, blazers, trousers, shirts, and shoes. They need to be of versatile colors as well. Have at least four of each.
3. Have a Few Signature Pieces
Remember that one unique detail can make your outfit. Invest in signature pieces such as colored pocket squares, timeless accessories, and patterned bow ties.
Moreover, uniqueness is an important factor. Find something that you’ll love and that you’ll be able to wear with your usual outfits.
It’s More Than Just Clothes, It’s What Makes You Handsome
Although it’s not always about looks, you can’t deny that how you dress plays a part in whether you can get the woman of your dreams.
Being handsome requires you to have much more than your natural beauty. It’s all about your clothes as well. It’s not just a shirt nor is it just a pair of denim jeans. It’s what makes you look put together regardless of what event you’re at.
