3 Telling Signs That American Men Should Explore International Dating

Dating today’s American women is challenging for American men.

Imagine you’re a mid-30s-something-year-old man. You’ve recently recovered from a divorce. The last words you remember from your ex-wife was that she wanted her own life. It wasn’t a surprise that it involved marrying a higher-income man. But you brush off the bad memory. It’s a weekend and your day off from the office. It’s time to unwind.

You’re walking downtown in your usual casual wear. A caramel macchiato comes to mind and it’s time to sate it.

Lining up at your favorite coffee shop brand, you notice a beautiful woman in line and line up behind her. She looks a bit to her right and you love what you see.

You want to talk to her. What man wouldn’t?

You then begin to remember the hashtags your friends were posting like #MeToo, #MyHarveyWeinstein, and #WhatWereYouWearing among the many other posts and hashtags you saw on your favorite social media feeds. You’ve seen videos of the anger, their version of the facts, and their demands from men.

You don’t know if it’s worth trying at this point. It would be a hassle to confront a woman who might not like to be chatted with in public with an older man. You’re probably thinking that since you don’t fit what most women are looking for, the most you can hope for is a fake phone number or a small chat without anything more.

As she’s waiting for her drink on the side, a taller man wearing designer fashion that screams wealth approaches her, and she kisses him. She had a boyfriend after all that you look nothing like.

You’ve heard the saying that there’s always more fish in the sea. The problem with that metaphor is that it doesn’t say how wide the sea is.

In the world of international dating, its reach is wider than in America. I’ve seen cases of men with great personalities having a decent chance with a wider selection pool abroad than in their local area.

Here are some signs that you might want to explore international dating:

1. You’ve given up dating local American women.

You’ve seen it everywhere from the neighbors next door, to the malls and in the workplace.

20 to 30-something-year-old American women that get upset with men opening the door for them. Yell at customer service when they want something done outside of the terms and conditions they agreed with. Will argue with a passion at anyone who made a snide remark that attacks their system of values.

They have all the rights and reasons to do so right? But don’t you sometimes wonder if it’s gone too far or if it’s become outright ridiculous?

Why remarry or date such women? Excessive individualism in American women is causing rifts in the traditional family structure. One wonders with every decade that passes if even the concept of family will even be sensible anymore. It’s hard enough to define what a man or woman should be.

2. Your woman needs to have a mindset from the “Good Ol’ Days.”

You remember your childhood when men were men and they had to be strong. A man who knows how to work the oil fields in the midwest. Can take care of fixing utilities, have practical knowledge, and have sense in life.

Women were feminine and modest, and wouldn’t call the police on you for harassment if you tried to approach them to say hello. The majority of them didn’t try to compete with men because they knew that’s what nature made them as. If a man went too far, her brothers and father would be sure to put aggressors in line for her.

This was a time when the ideal family unit was that kind of man and kind of woman. The man would earn the money. The woman would know how to cook, maintain a household, and make sure the kids would be guided. If she needed help in raising them, that’s when you would have to confront your father and it wouldn’t be fun.

Nowadays, some judges can’t even define what a woman is anymore. The horse has been allowed to run free. The problem is, there are no more boundaries. The meaning of a man or woman depends on who you ask. It’s no longer a common and agreed type of knowledge. It’s everywhere from the street to digital media.

There are still women out there who know how to cook and are willing to clean the house and raise children. They mind their looks and behavior in public. They recognize the value of a man and look to his leadership capabilities. However, you’re not likely to find them in America.

3. You’re looking for a way to find traditional-minded women.

You know they exist. It’s just that you’re not sure how to reach them.

You’ve heard horror stories of men getting catfished online. Local dating apps are showing their weaknesses. There’s no accountability and everything is left to the user. This could play itself in the international dating space.

Other stories are of men who meet foreign women and trick them into getting a green card with affection. They marry just because they want the money that comes along with marrying an American.

Bad press does spread faster and greater than good news. For many men, it’s a case-to-case basis. Just because a few cases of gold digging by these foreign women occur, it doesn’t mean that every woman is a gold digger or just wants a green card.

Maybe you’re thinking that you can’t get through the language and culture barrier. You don’t need to start off knowing about Asians, Latinas, or East Europeans. Every reputable matchmaking agency has staff to assist you while you learn more about how to connect with these non-Western women.

Maybe it’s time you explore your options.

Why do you need to change who you are? Every progressive would love that you acted like what they wanted. That you don’t have a right to your opinion about how men and women should be. Complimenting a woman today depending on some American women is now a crime or subject to termination from your job.

Why deal with it anymore?

Every man deserves to find a woman who truly cares about him and shares the same sentiment. They’re out there, it’s up to you to find them. The world of women is bigger than American women’s. Why not explore international dating today?